Hill is an attorney and a philanthropy consultant. She lives in Point Loma.
This past year, it has become more evident than ever that we all take so much for granted: our freedom, our opportunities, our potential, our accomplishments, our health, and even our families and friends.
With gratitude for all of these, and optimism that we can move closer to the “best selves” we hope to leave behind as our legacies, the new year presents us with the opportunity to set new priorities.
If tomorrow were your last day on Earth, what would be left undone on your “to do” list? What in your obituary is missing that would have made a positive difference and made you proud?
Have you always wanted to help people who have few opportunities and are unlikely to succeed? Or have you always hoped to make a difference in just one person’s life — as a mentor or counselor or patron — with your time, talent and/or treasure? Have you always intended to our schools, or cultural institutions, or a particular cause?
People in unimaginable need are all around us if we choose to see them and lend a hand. Many of the cultural institutions that we assume will “always be there” are on shaky financial ground and continue “hat in hand” annually. The cause that you have intended to might be disappearing and needs your help.
Knowing that your needs are met, consider your wants — and whether or not you want to make a difference.
In this life contract, we have no choice as to when it begins nor when it ends. However, we are free to decide how to spend our discretionary time and have limitless choices.
My hope is that in this new year, those of you whose needs are met will choose to explore the issues that are most meaningful to you (not just to your friends or co-workers) and become involved. If you don’t know where you’re going, or what cause is most important to you, any road will do. You are the only one who can determine what truly speaks to your heart, which requires careful consideration and due diligence. Consider a nonprofit that serves the people or cause you find of interest and take that first step.
This doesn’t have to be about donating money. Your presence and your deeds are enough, and if you have skills, talents and experience to share, all the better.
Over the years, I have volunteered for several educational nonprofits and boards because I believe that education is the key to changing lives. However, when I consider the “gaps” on my list, I realize that more direct, one-on-one mentorship will be my priority this year. A friend reads to children who have experienced trauma and I’m sure that, more than the books, just his presence and interest is a huge inspiration to them — and to me.
So be grateful and volunteer. Why? Because you can. Because compared to billions of people on the planet, you are privileged and free to pursue whatever cause you choose.
The old saying that “the more you give the more you receive” is true, and in that sense helping others is not entirely selfless or philanthropic. By helping even just one person, you are making the world a better place for you and yours.
Your reward will be even more for which to be grateful and a priceless sense of satisfaction. You will learn new things, gain experience, meet new people and make new friends. What can top that?
In this new year, consider how to improve the world in your own individual way.
2024 could be your best, most thank-filled year yet.
